5 Situations When the First Date Shouldn’t Be Made the Last
There are certain situations when even the most confident person would find it hard to initiate a second date. To make things easier, here are 5 situations when the first date shouldn’t be made the last.
Your date is clearly interested in you
~If your date is showing interest in you and asking you more questions, it means they like you.
~If they would like to see you again, they will let you know.
~If they don’t ask you out again, it’s not necessarily a bad thing. You might not have been a match for them or maybe you are great friends but not a good match for dating.
~If your date has been initiating conversation, it usually means they want to spend more time with you.
When you are on a date, don’t be afraid to ask a few questions as well. Let your date know you are interested in them as well. It’ll make them feel good about themselves and about you.
You had a ton of fun together
If you are having a great time on your first date, it’s a clear sign that a second date will be even better. Having fun together will help to create a good connection.Having fun on a date also means that both of you are comfortable around each other. A person who is uncomfortable around you will not be able to have a good time.
Your date was just as nervous as you were
If you are confident and outgoing, you’ll feel comfortable talking to almost anyone. But if you are more introverted, it can be hard to feel comfortable and relaxed when you first meet someone.
~Even if you are super confident and outgoing, you will still be nervous sometimes and you want to make the best impression possible.
~Nervousness is not a bad sign. It just means that your date wants to make a good impression.
You already have great conversation and banter
~doesn’t just mean that you find each other interesting;
~means that you can finish each other’s sentences and you know each other’s intentions;
~could mean that you are both compatible.
~means that you have similar communication styles and can understand each other quite well.
You know you’d have amazing chemistry together
~you feel really excited;
~you feel like you can’t take your eyes off of them;
~you feel that you want tactile contact with a person, you can’t wait to touch them: hug or take their hand, for example.